International Lover (Part II).
Tuesday, February 13, 2007 at 10:54PM Let’s just get right down to business. I’ve usually never been of the mindset to attach disclaimers to what I write when I 
express my personal opinions of various matters – mainly because grown ass people should have the common sense and objective state of mind to deduce that I am only one person. Therefore, I am of the capacity to only offer one opinion, an opinion that is uniquely my own and from my unique point of view. The qualitatively interpersonal research I’m about to reveal to you, my audience, is from my personal experience in interacting with women of various races and nationalities. African Women: They’re number one on my list. In my opinion, African women – as in born and raised in South Africa , as opposed to African American women – are some of the most desirable women on the face of the earth. Contrary to popular belief, a belief (or should I say stereotype?) that black women are confrontational, angry, gold diggers, emasculating, argumentative etc. African women can be surprisingly submissive. I venture further to say that many African women are very respectful of men, mannerable, attentive, loving, and sincere. I’ve also found many African women to be very personable, friendly, and gregarious.
They have a tendency to fall for a good man relatively quickly without any reservations or drama and be dedicated to the man they‘re with. African women will not give a man the runaround. If an African woman is not interested in you she’s going to let you know very abruptly with her body language. If she doesn’t laugh at you or ignore you she’ll definitely walk away from you. But if she senses there’s chemistry between you and her she’ll be locked on you like a heat-seeking missile. I’ve dated African women from Zimbabwe , Tanzania , Kenya , Ghana , and Zaire but the one nationality of African women I’m most attracted to are Ethiopian women. Ethiopian women have an exotic almost extraterrestrial Beauty that is unlike any other women on Earth.
Their skin is usually a rich honey brown or a tannish cocoa butter hue, large oval eyes, thick, silky hair, a very small nose and wonderfully full lips as if they were going to burst with Mango juice. They have a very small bone structure, which is the reason for dramatic body lines - a tiny neck, like the twig of a tree, a very small waist, perfectly sculpted hips and thighs and a perfectly round forehead. Their facial features are large, almond-shaped dark brown eyes, protruding cheekbones, and extraordinarily white teeth. All of these physical features are clearly indistinguishable from any other nationality of African women. Upon first contact, if an Ethiopian woman is attracted to you she’s going to smile right away. She’s going to be flirtatious yet maintain her 
poise. They maintain eye contact and are comfortable being in close proximity to a man. Many Ethiopian women aren’t shy or bashful at all. If they find you interesting they will make direct eye contact with you even if it’s just in passing at a mall or other public place. One thing you do have to look out for, though, is to keep your distance if the Ethiopian female you’re interested in travels with her mom. And many young Ethiopian women, particuarly, between the ages of 19 to late twenties. Ethiopian mothers can be very protective of their daughters, which means you’ll have to find out how to get to 
her through a friend. In my experience, Ethiopian men can also be very friendly and accomodating. If you’re lucky you’ll make friends with an Ethiopian man for three reasons: (1) They can be very trustworthy and usually develop very strong friendships. (2) They usually have a vast number of other friends and will make a valiant effort to introduce you to them. (3) Many of them have at least two if not three sisters (see what I’m getting at?).
Spanish Women: Spanish women usually have more Caucasian type features as opposed to their Hispanic counterparts. But I’m more attracted to women that are of darker complexion – Spaniards that have more Salma Hayek/Jennifer Lopez type features i.e. dark hair, large dark brown eyes, thick eyebrows, hourglass shape, etc. In my experience, Spanish women can be particularly aggressive and completely uninhibited romantically and sexually. They can be especially flirtatious, spontaneous, and explorative.
If a Spanish woman is not attracted to you she may continue to be friendly and sociable towards you but she’ll definitely do the double stop sign hands routine letting you know to keep your distance. If she’s into you, then you’ll have your hands full right away. With some Spanish girls they like to play the bashful role and then ambush you when you least expect it. Whereas, with other Spanish women they’ll just attack you like a Great White Shark. It doesn’t matter where you are. You could be at the post office. You could be right in the middle of a dance floor at 5am. You could be standing in the middle of a heavy rain - she’s going to do you. With a Spanish woman it isn’t a question of if there will be sex. The question will be how quickly can you rip hers and your clothes off and how long can you last?
But whatever you do, do not piss off a Spanish woman. Once you get on a Spanish woman’s bad side that is where you stay for the rest of your days on earth. Whereas their Hispanic counterparts (Puerto Rican, Cuban, Venezuelan, etc.), particularly, with Cuban women they will kick your ass as well as put a contract out on your life after they’re done kicking your ass. Spanish women will simply treat you as you’re invisible. No matter how angry they are at you they will not express their anger in public - usually.
German Women: Nothing much really to say here. They’re not too much different from your run-of-the-mill Caucasian, except they have a tendency to be more intellectual due to the advanced curriculum in their educational system. However, I have a tendency to lean more towards the mixed German/black women. Many of the biracial German women I’ve encountered were stupendously gorgeous and well-built. Nevertheless, many German women can be more carefree and uninhibited than their typical Caucasian counterparts here in the states. They are usually very friendly and develop very deep friendships with people.
Hispanic Women (i.e. Brazilian, Puerto Rican, Cuban): Of all the Hispanic subcultures Puerto Rican women are the easiest to get along with. Now that isn’t to say they’re such pleasant creatures. They can have those split personality characteristics and a mean streak like a pit bull. The absolute worst of the worst are Cuban women, particularly, of the Caucasoid persuasion. They are under the influence of thinking that they’re actually better than white people, as if that sentiment in itself was even fallible in the least. They’ll do stupid ass shit like date a black guy and fuck his brains out just to piss off their parents.
Many of them have this stupid ass practice of bringing their friends along with them on a date, so you’re sitting there trying to get to know this girl and she has two or three other dudes hanging all over her trying to be halfway protective and some prissy, loud, conceited little fairy princesses trying to call the shots as the date goes on. Hell no. Columbian chicks are crazy as hell. They’re like light bulbs. One moment you’re at a traffic light and a Columbian chick will nearly choke you to death in a deep French kiss. The next moment she wants to get as far away from you as possible over some pointless comment or mood. Many Hispanic women have a tendency to think they own you once they give their love up to you. All of a sudden there’s all this protocol you have to go through with her because she’s your woman now.
East Indian Women (i.e. India , Sri Lanka , and Pakistan ): In my personal experience I’ve found these women to be some
of the most seductive women on the planet simply by virtue of their eyes and body language. However, the reason why they’re rated lower than the aforementioned is because of the relative difficulty in obtaining and dating an Indian woman. Many East Indian women are very heavily guarded by male friends or relatives. They usually don’t interact with black men at all especially if they are more traditional minded. You will get zero play from an East Indian female if you try to use conventional tactics. Every single East Indian woman I’ve dated I met through a friend of a friend.
The upside is this: East Indian women corner the market in eye contact and body language. An interested East Indian woman will only give you a split second of eye contact but in that split second she’ll give you one or two gazes like a Siberian Tiger just before pouncing on it’s prey. An East Indian woman will tell you everything you need to know through her eyes. In some cases you may even have to take note of how she doesn’t look at you. Some East Indian women will look away or have submissive body language when they are in the presence of a brother they’re interested in. Other East Indian women will smile uncontrollably. Never should you act on this type of body language. Even if she gives you all the signals you must keep your distance. Find a way to be introduced to her through her friends. The downside is many nationalities of Indians are just as racist if not more racist than your typical white people. When you encounter ignorance like that just move on. Subtlety and patience is the key with East Indian women.
The down side is this: 9 times out of ten, if you spot an East Indian woman dressed in traditional clothing your chances will be slim to none. Many of them will be married or they’ may already be chosen for someone to marry. Your best bet will be to pursue an Indian woman that has adapted to the westernized culture of America. They’re easy to spot. They’re the ones that don’t have their hair in a tight bun or a long pony tail hanging halfway down their bodies. East Indian people are also very similar in culture to the Chinese and Japanese in that they can be unjustifiably racist. Yet another minority race of people that have been opressed by whites yet they embrace white doctorine anyway. They adapt all of the stereotypical views that have been fed to them by white people and unquestionably follow suit. Oftentimes, even if an Indian woman is attracted to you and
wants to have a relationship with you their parents most certainly will not approve. If you become romantically involved with an Indian female you can count on having a very secretive, evasive relationship that may end abruptly or result in her being disowned from her family.
Caribbean Women (i.e. Jamaica , Dominican Republic , and Haiti ): It’s a toss up here with me. Whether I got a lot of play from a Caribbean woman or no play at all I’ve never had any good luck with them. First of all, most of them are caught up in this fallacy that they aren’t black. Secondly, they have this uncanny ability to zero in on the worst of the worst dudes a human female could be involved with. This, in turn, gives them the dysfunctional state of mind that leads many of them to pursue, as well as stay with, the craziest, tyrannical, chauvinistic, barbaric, unreasonable, ignorant of men. Of all the Caribbean women I’ve had the pleasure of becoming romantically involved with, some of these women have actually had complaints about my endowment - one.
Now, I’m a good eight-and-a-half to nine inches (nine if I’m really into the woman I’m with and I‘ve been working out on a regular basis) but a couple of these females have actually alluded to the notion that they prefer bigger dicks!! Far be it for me to complain. Hey, I ain’t hating in the least. If a woman thinks she needs 12 inches or longer to get her rocks off, then more power to you. But you have to think for a moment. If a dude with a dick the length of my forearm was so great what the hell are you all the way over here in the states sweating me for? I ain’t mad – I’m just sayin’. Anyways, many Caribbean women can be some of the most unpredictable, difficult to deal with, two-faced, untrustworthy, back-stabbing, arrogant females on the face of the earth.
Asian Women ( China , Japan , Thailand and the Philippines ): This is a complex issue and you need to be aware that the
intell I’m about to drop on you is proof positive fact. Don’t get me wrong. I’ve had the pleasure of dating some beautiful Asian women – some of them that weren’t the typical boney, emaciated, pale, flat butt, long pelvis-having, monkey-shaped females you see in National Geographic magazines. Contrary to popular belief there are some Asian women, particularly, with Filipino women that are built exactly like some of the finest black women you’ve ever come across. However, three things serve as barriers to the success of a brother with an Asian girl:
Ignorance: Particularly with Chinese and Japanese women these females come from extremely repressive cultures. These two nationalities of people have a bad habit of embracing white men no matter what level of class, home training, education or personal appearance these men are in. In other words, they suffer from White is Right syndrome. A brother could look like Shamar Moore, make a six figure salary, and have the charm and style of James Bond and will still get the cold shoulder, if any play at all, from an Asian girl. In contrast, with a white dude, he could look like Bobcat Goldthwait, smell like a sweaty, worn out gym sock, and dress like a homeless person and an Asian chick will dive all over him like he’s Brad Pitt.
Racism: More specifically, the racist views and opinions they learn and or are taught from white people and westernized media. It doesn’t necessarily bother me so much that whites try so hard to villanize blacks. They do it everyday here in America. That isn’t to say it’s right but I’ve learned long since to ignore it. What bothers me how so receptive the Chinese and Japanese are to the ignorance they’ve been fed on a daily basis since the A-bomb was dropped on Hiroshima. Many Japanese people take their admiration and idolization of whites so far as to even 
try to change their own appearance to mirror the look of their oppressors. They have a procedure done to their eyelids where they are cut back to have a more caucasian appearance, they change their hair color to brown or blonde, and they study the westernized culture of whites intensely in order to achieve more acceptance by whites. Once again, don’t get me wrong. There are many Asian women out there that not only have a sweet tooth for black men they have out-of-wedlock children by them, which leads me to the source of the connection between Asian women and black men. The only way a brother will be successful with an Asian girl is in two ways:
1. She will have experienced rejection in her immediate environment.
2. She has given up all traditional values of Japanese culture except what has been deeply embedded in their long term memory as children.
At any rate, these females are outcasts. They don’t give a damn about who they date because they have severed their ties to their homeland either as a result of making poor social decisions or be a victim of circumstance. More often than not, many Asian women just don’t chase after black men because they’re open-minded and liberal. They chase after brothers because they know the typical Asian guy or even white dude wouldn’t want to get down with them.
Poor Interpersonal Skills: 
In my experience, of all the races and nationalities of women I’ve dated Asian women have the hardest time adjusting to interracial relationships, particularly, with black men, yet have such love, admiration, and extraordinary interest for white men. Some Asian women can be known to fulfill the traditional stereotypes of Asian women: Passive, submissive, cooks, cleans etc. But with many Asian females, particularly, the ones that have been Americanized, they have a tendency to throw temper tantrums, ultimatums, fits, mood swings and other various nerve-wracking behavior that can wear a man out. The funny thing about these women is, when in the beginning of dating many of them will give you the impression that they lead a full life that restricts them from returning phone calls. They pretend like they wouldn’t give a damn if you fall off of the face of the earth to your inevitable death.
Many Asian women will treat interpersonal interactions like business meetings - almost an inconvenience. But once you tap that ass just right all bets are off. Here come the mood swings, ultimatums, and temper tantrums. Here come these long conversations where you have to convince an Asian woman (damn your actions you have to TELL her) of whatever your goals and interests are with her and what you plan on achieving with her. Many of them just can’t appreciate a brother that makes being in a relationship look easy. They usually maintain their indecisive, fickle, immature, irrational behavior until they push a brother to the end of his wits.
Reader Comments (21)
damn man, out of all the Types of women you came out with, i have to say those are very similar to my experiences as well, keep up the trueness lol, damn that sucks for the Asian women, on the white man ****, its so true it makes me barf and laugh at the same time.
Very informative.. Ur pretty much dead on with teh Asain women. I've been seeing this Taiwanese girl for some time now and at first she did have alot of sterotypes in her mind about black people. I mean, some of teh worst shit i've heard... Fortunately,with soem time and a window into the mind of a Non-sterotypical black man her veiws are changed now.. But her mom still has her reservations about us black so, she keeps our interaction on teh DL. Daz ok, not looking for a "girlfriend"She does love and respect white guys though Even the but ugly ones, as you said... LOL
Very informative.. Ur pretty much dead on with teh Asain women. I've been seeing this Taiwanese girl for some time now and at first she did have alot of sterotypes in her mind about black people. I mean, some of teh worst shit i've heard... Fortunately,with soem time and a window into the mind of a Non-sterotypical black man her veiws are changed now.. But her mom still has her reservations about us black so, she keeps our interaction on teh DL. Daz ok, not looking for a "girlfriend"She does love and respect white guys though Even the but ugly ones, as you said... LOL
I am Caribbean and i don't consider myself black. Read about our history than you will understand. But I agree with the large penis.
I know about Caribbean history as well as the history of numerous other cultures. I understand what you're saying but all I have to say is if you've never been to the states all you have to do is come and visit. You'll quickly come to find that you're just as black as I am.
I love black and dark women more than white women the perfect femality is black women with their long and sweet eyes
..wow interesting read....
I'm an asian woman and I do have some serious mood swings and throw tantrums because i feel like the man for me should be able to handle it..but once i realize the man is a good one, then i bring out my caring and loving ways, i'll make him my king...lol..but i guess it takes the right man to appreciate a certain type of woman..I've been with asian men, white men, black men and none of them were able to hold my crazy ass down...until now and he happens to be all-in-one race..lol
Me too. I like more black women than white. I love their beautifull color of skin, the lips and hair. They are cute and i don't understand why some people argue they are "masculine". I have totally different point of view.
Wow! Some of those things that you said about asian women are true. We do tend to give men the cold shoulder in the early stages of dating, but I dont feel that we are racist at all. It might be because I am Vietnamese. You should try dating a Vietnamese women, we are a lot different from Japanese or Chinese women.
You're exactly right about Vietnamese women, Victoria. There was a mutual interest between myself and a Vietnamese woman a few years ago but the increased distance made it harder and harder for us to try to pursue a relationship more seriously.
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Hi I'm a Vietnamese girl I totally think your article is bang on about Asian woman, but I will have to say that Viets are the exception to the rule...and not just because I am one... We can be insanely sweet and sexy with none of the mmod swinging tantrums you described :P But good article anyhow!
Do you use Myspace? You seem like an interesting person.
And why did you choose "german woman" instead of just plain "White woman"? :D
You write well
That's a good question, Paulina. And thank you for appreciating my writing style. It was a luck of the draw I guess as far as choosing German women as opposed to just saying white women.
I could have said "English women" or "European women" but Germans are just a tad more exotic.
Just saying "White women" seemed too plain as well as too broad. Besides, there are slight differences in idiocincracies in the various nationalities of caucasian women.
Perhaps I'll get around to breaking down the cultural differences between black and white women of different regions in the near future.
Damn, no offense, but your a big fan of stereotypes, "It doesn’t necessarily bother me so much that whites try so hard to villanize blacks. They do it everyday here in America" "Racism: More specifically, the racist views and opinions they learn and or are taught from white people and westernized media"
Man, post something thats not opinionated and twisted for once, whats written here is just anti everything 'white', although refering to people of that skin tone will not help the problem, only make it more acceptable to call African americans, or even african people 'black'
Damn. No offense but you have to be the densest, dumbest person that has ever accidentally come across this blog. The first paragraph of this entry clearly communicates that GROWN ASS PEOPLE should have the common sense and objective state of mind to understand that what I post on this blog is a result of my personal experiences. That should have let you know to take your business elsewhere if you were looking for something different.
But lets get down to business. This happens to be my damn blog, first of all. Take a second and scroll up to the introduction of my blog. It says: "FEEDBACK is appreciated." It was courteous way to let people with at least half a brain and a pinhead amount of common sense know to drop, at the very least, some constructive criticism not some pissy ass, unsubstantiated little rant.
Secondly, when you start paying for my blog I'll write what YOU want to read. Until then you can shut the fuck up or at least have enough critical thinking ability to comprehend that I can't read your finite mind and customize my entries to suit your needs. And even if I could read your mind or anyone elses for that matter I would STILL write for me.
Don't think I'm taking your narrow-minded, inexperienced, uninformed criticism personally. Actually, I find your ignorance to be quite funny, which is why I'm even letting your sorry ass response continue to exist on my blog. But let's get to the point of the matter:
There is nothing anti-anyone or anything in this entry or any other entry on my blog. Get that shit straight. I have provided unbiased, objective cultural pros and cons of nearly every race and nationality of woman I have experienced--here's the whole point--FROM A BLACK MAN'S PERSPECTIVE.
So, how can I be "anti-white" if I also provide pros and cons about black women, Asian and Asiatic women? Sounds more to me like you're some thin-skinned, oblivious white person that can't stand the fact that people who aren't white don't feel beneath you--that they can see you for who you really are instead of honoring your own self-imposed entitlement, thereby, automatically love you just because you're white.
You were dead on about all the women you talked about. Especially the Caribbean women. I would have to say that domestically they run circles around American Black Women. They are also in a sense too submissive. To the point where you start to wonder do they know how to think for themselves. As far as the African women are concerned you forgot the part about the religeon. Most of them practice the muslim religeon but are very open to learn about Christianity! Shots out to all those International Players out there!! Always remember, Take care of your Ho's and your Ho's will take care of you.. Preach......
Quentin,
I feel you about the religion aspect but I wanted to skate clear of the religion aspect. Point being if a woman is truly into a man she'll try to work it out. But chances are many African women, particularly, the ones of muslim faith, will not get down with anyone who isn't muslim. And that's a whole different topic. Good looking out, man.
ethiopian women are sexyyy!!
I believe that a link to this page should be included in the dictionary next to the word, "womanizer".
WOW.
Talking about women as if they are breeds of dogs.
And...criticizing Caribbean women for not calling themselves "black". They're free to identify with whatever terms they want to, within their own culture. Who are you to tell them what they are? Plenty of Ethiopian women do the same.