Older v.s. Younger Women.
Wednesday, February 7, 2007 at 08:58PM 
Let’s just put all jokes aside and be serious for a moment: If I had to choose between being involved with younger women or older women I’d have to choose older women. Since I’m 34 I’m going to place myself in the category of pursuing older women between the ages of 36 to 50 and younger women between the ages of 18 to 24. I’m also going to give you a comparison and contrast of dealing with both. There’s a host of reasons an older woman will go after a young dude. She just may like you as the son she never had or the son she didn’t raise right. Either way you’re not going to get any play and if you do you better prepare yourself to inherit a new mama because she’s going to run your life from one end to another. In comparison, a younger woman will go after an older dude because she wants the father she never had or the father she wishes she had. It may be a great thing if you’re a controlling kind of dude but the down side is younger females will rebel against you just like they would if they had a father in their lives. They have to live that missing portion of their lives whether you want them to or not so you better be ready to deal with it sooner or later.
In contrast, with younger women, whether you get a lot of play or no play you’re going to have a lot of headaches and lose a lot of sleep in dealing with many of them. With young women you’re going to have to be careful in the early stages. Due to their immaturity, insecurity, not having found themselves yet, and low self-esteem they’re easily threatened and intimidated by strong men, particularly, in the case of females that were raised in single parent homes, so it’s easier just to play their game by their rules at least until you get your foot in the door. Instead of just looking up to you occasionally for a little support or guidance she’s going to be in your face 24-7-365 chewing your damn ear off either on the phone, in person or in emails or all three about everything from some girl that doesn’t like her in class to some dude(s) that stalks her or a miriad of other pointless, petty, worthless, counterproductive, annoying issues they’ll litter your life up with. And they feel you shouldn’t mind helping them through these growing pains at any time of the day or night. You see, I’m a very busy man. Every second of everyday in my life is planned in some way, shape or form, which means my rest is very important to me. I don’t need some broad calling me at 2:30 in the morning because she’s lonely or text messaging me at work because some dude at the mall told her she was fine or yapping my ear off while I’m trying to watch TV because she feels she doesn’t get enough attention.
In many cases, with older women, they’ve held professions and had to juggle other responsibilities at the same time too, so they know sleep as well as alone time is important. They won’t waste your damn time calling you and text messaging you at all times of the day and night or sitting up in your face demanding attention like a 5-year-old foster child like many younger women will, mainly because older women have figured out how to deal with their petty issues on their own without involving someone else everytime they run into a problem. An older woman understands a man needs his space and will be courteous enough to give you a brief call just to say hello and keep her visits to your crib down to a minimum unless you specify otherwise. a lot of times many older women don’t want to be bothered either, so the line of communication will be more balanced, whereas with many young females you either have to keep up with them like lost cats or just about damn near have to block or screen your calls to keep them off your back.
With an older woman she may just want to fuck your brains out and drop you like a common cold to get over that seven year itch of not having a regular lover in her life. See, for this type of older woman you have to be in the state of mind to know she may sex you up at any time as well as drop you at any time with no warning and 99% of the time you will never hear from her again. If all you want is some temporary action to get over a hump of boredom, then you’re in like Flin. But if you think you can somehow have this woman falling all over you, you can hang it up. Unlike a lot of younger women, older women know how to hit it and quit it. A lot of brothers, particularly, young brothers mistake a woman that’s older and single as desperate and lonely. In some cases that may be true but if you’re dealing with an older woman, especially an older woman that looks very good for her age and she’s active, she’s either already accomplished her goals i.e. been married, had kids and raised them and been divorced or she’s been out there so long she’s a damn lady dragon and she’ll consume your soul if you don’t watch your ass. This means you’ll have some mind blowing sex for a short period of time, the definition of short being at her discretion, and that short period of time could be one day, one month or one year. In comparison, a younger woman will also want it all the time except with a younger woman if you hit it just right she’s going to be hanging around you like a stray cat after having given it a bowl of milk.
When you’re dealing with significantly older women, particularly, when you’re the one that’s much younger, You have to treat the situation like you’re doing a tour of duty in a war: Get in, complete the mission, and get out. Many older women are MASTERS at manipulating men - they’re masters at pretending to be innocent, wanting to take it slow and pretending to be vulnerable and sensitive until they think they got you where they want you, then they insert their bone-crushing mandibles and it’s over. In comparison, younger women are generally the same but usually aren’t as masterful at manipulating men unless they’re dealing with the kind of guy that only deals with his little head. In contrast, particularly, with younger women in their late teens to early twenties, more often than not, they’re foolish enough to try to run game on a man no matter how weak and tired the game is.
You see, weak, tired game generally is to be expected from men because many of them, once again, think with their little head instead of their big head. Also, in many cases their isn’t much even in their big head to work with. But with females it can be especially a pain. I’ve been pursued by many girls between 18 to 20 that think brothers my age don’t know anything. They think the strategies they use are something new and innovative when people have been using the same tactics since the dawn of man. I find that to be particularly annoying in the case of younger women.
It’s an insult to my intelligence for a girl that’s young enough to be my daughter and think because she kissed a boy or two or let some dude pop her in her little cooty or held hands while taking a walk in the park that she can run game on any man alive. I like to think of myself as a nice guy in the fact that I will at least tell one of these simple-minded ass girls that their game was peeped a long time ago. I may even go so far as to lecture a girl on why her game is weak and why she should give up trying to run it, especially if she isn’t good at it. But with many guys they’ll capitalize on a young girls inexperience, naivety, and stupidity and get that girl caught up to the point she’s ready to either commit scuicide or kill another female. The worst case scenario is these young girls end up with a string of fatherless children or AIDS. In contrast, with an older woman, she may try to run game on a man but if she realizes he has the capacity to peep her game she’ll either drop the act and play fair or she’ll realize she’s out of her league and hit the road. Younger women aren’t that rational. They go so far as to actually seek out more experienced men because it’s more of a high to be successful at running game on an experienced man. They usually end up sticking their necks out and getting hurt in the end. Older women know their limitations and act accordingly.
If you want to get down with an older woman I suggest you hit it as quickly as possible and do a DAMN GOOD JOB of hitting it. Unless she TELLS you she doesn’t want you to hit it, then you better be ready to make your moves. In my experiences even the older women that have told me to take it easy are the ones that will rip their clothes and your clothes off the quickest if you know how to stroke them the right way at their weakest moment. The trick is knowing WHEN they’re at a weak moment. Unlike younger girls, Older women won’t put up with a young dude that doesn’t know what he’s doing. You fuck up with her and you’ll never hear from her again because older women DON’T LIKE TO HAVE THEIR TIME WASTED. Young chicks will let a dude perform all kinds of stupid stunts mainly because they don’t know what the hell is going on themselves anyway. They’re learning as they go just like you.
When you’re dealing with an older woman don’t waste her time second-guessing yourself and being all doubtful. Make her orgasm a few times and you’ll have a more level playing field. Knock her damn socks off, then ease off and give her time to go through the motions with the mindset that you’ll never see her again. That way, if she was just looking for a fuck and she disappears on you, then you’ll know at least you got your money’s worth. But if she starts to open her cauldron on you, then you know you have all the time in the world to bargain how your relationship is going to proceed. TRUST ME - if you hit it right and hit it right HARD you won’t have to worry about calling her the next day. She’s going to hit you up whether you want her to or not and depending on how into you she is she’ll start planning little romantic sh!t for you two to do together right away.
Don’t get upset or feel threatened if an older woman tries to treat you like a boy toy but don’t let her emasculate or belittle 
you either. Be assertive and be clear in what your job is but do it with tact. And if you actually do get a chance to hit it don’t think it’s going to be like doing it with younger girls. Young chicks scream and scratch and try to make you get them to orgasm as fast and hard and as many times as possible. In contrast, an older woman will guide you, make you take your time hitting it just right. All an older woman needs is just one good strong orgasm and she’s straight for the rest of the week, maybe even a month. However, with many younger chicks, they want you to be searching all over their bodies for their G-spot like you’re on a damn Easter egg hunt because they’ve been fooled by their own kind into thinking that men are supposed to automatically know all women’s wants and needs. They also think it takes burning energy equivalent to running an IRONMAN competition to prove your sexual prowess. But older women don’t have time for all that bullshit. Older women will tell you right off the bat where their G-spot is, and will take you right to it if you don’t eventually figure out how to hit her G-spot on your own the way she wants you to. Be ready, brothers. Do that damn thing right and do it right the first time around.
Reader Comments (8)
Nice shit!, lol, damn man, i learned quite a bit form this and i believe your posts to be very accurate from me experience so far and continuing. I myself am only 17 but you could say i have a mind of a 25 year old man. I would love to date a chick who's 28-35 any day. Not only will i learn a lot of lessons lol, ill be far to experienced for girls my age.
P.S> yeah i hate weak ass games the young females play, i spot that to quick and reverse it, they feel dumb afterwards lol.
Good article EXCEPT you said we older women are "set for a week, or even a month" after one good orgasm??? Oh please - maybe we're set until later that night, or the next morning. But not much longer. If she isn't going back to you for a week or a month, she's going somewhere for it.
You read a little too deep into that comment, msxyzyx. In my experience older women aren't dying for another orgasm right after having one that nearly put them to sleep like it's a life or death situation. When an older woman knows she has a good man and on top of that he's giving her orgasms everytime they get between the sheets--trust me--she ain't going anywhere. And if she does feel like she needs more than what I have to offer, which has never happened, the door is right there.
On the other hand, with younger females, more often than not, many of think they have to have multiple orgasms every night all night. Ain't nobody got no time for that shit. Not anyone working a full-time career. I have experienced some younger females that were so short-sighted and unappreciative they thought they could get the same package deal from any guy. It isn't until a few weeks or a few months when they realize that isn't they case they always come back begging for a second chance. Now of course, as I've always said, there are exceptions to the rule in any case. As always, I can only comment on my experiences. When someone comes up in my blog acting like I excluded them they need to realize I'm only one person, therefore, I'm only going to comment on what I've experienced. I'm an individual not a representative from the Census Bureau.
I just happened to be searching through the internet when I came across this article. I found it sooo refreshing and right on time. I'm a 44 year old woman who just gave up on men my age or older. Normally I date men between the ages of 30 - 40. But in the last year I've ran into several men my age that made me curious. I ended up regretting it. The saying "There's no fool like an old fool.", is alive and well. I'll take my chances with a younger man any day.
You're right, Nalani. I would say the older woman/younger man scenario would be the best choice. Thankfully I know when I get older I'll already have the experience and stay in shape to keep up with a woman no matter what her age is.
I think the main reason why older women have bad experiences with men their age and older is because a lot of men let themselves get out of shape plus they never bothered to refine themselves during their prime, therefore, as the progressively get older they become more and more socially inept. Good luck to you, Nalani, with your young beau!
Seems really accurate in my vastly limited experience.
You're a smart guy. My limited experience was perfectly resumed in your post and also there are some interesting ideas to test further. Lol!
Really liked your post - detailed explanations with peeps into the deep female psyche. I am 28 yrs old & from India. In our society older woman - younger man marriages are not very popular so to say. But I feel inclined towards it, primarily for two reasons. Firstly, I think it's common that a woman has more life expentancy than a man. So in such a kind of relationship, if I assume that the two get married, the two of them can expect their natural deaths of their lives at around the same time & either of them don't have to live a long partnerless rest of the life. Secondly & more importantly from my view, a woman's expectation from a man is security & a man who's younger to her can give her a better sense of security (physical security & perception about the future) than a man who's older than her. Whereas a man's expectation from a woman is affection which can come from an older woman more naturally. Apart from what you rightly said that an older woman is more understanding & gives more space. ...I really felt good after reading your long post! Wish me luck that this lone wolf gets settled with a loving cougar! :) Cheers!